From Dad's notebook
Your landlord won't fix anything. Here's what to do, in order.
Something in your place is broken, you've asked, and you're being handled — delayed, ignored, made to feel like you're the difficult one. Take a breath. This is a solvable problem, and the order of the steps matters more than the anger. Work it top to bottom.
First
Put it in writing, once, calmly
A phone call is a favour. An email or a text is a record. One short message: what is broken, when you first reported it, and a polite ask for a repair date. No anger in it — anger is for later, if it comes to that, and it works better when the early record shows you were reasonable.
Then
Date-stamp everything from here on
Photos of the problem, photos with today’s newspaper in frame if it drags on, a folder for every message. If the repair affects health or safety — no heat, no hot water, a leak spreading, a lock that doesn’t lock — the paper trail is what turns your word into a case.
After that
Send the follow-up that names dates
If nothing has happened in a reasonable time — a week for non-urgent things, a day or two for anything dangerous — send one more message that says plainly: “I reported this on the 3rd and followed up on the 10th. Please confirm a repair date by Friday.” You are not being difficult. You are being someone with a record.
If that fails
Use the outside leverage your city gives you
Nearly every place has one: a housing authority, a tenant hotline, a health department that inspects rentals, a small-claims or rent-escrow route. Rules differ a lot by state and country, so look up your own city’s tenant rights page before you lean on any specific one — I can help you find and read yours.
The first message, written for you
A sample of what step one looks like when it's actually typed — swap in your own facts, keep the tone:
“Hi Marcus — the bathroom sink has been draining slowly for about a week and today it stopped entirely. I first mentioned it in my message on the 12th. Could you let me know when a repair might happen? Happy to be around whenever suits. Thanks — Sam.”
And on cost, so nobody can pad the bill at your expense: never argue about a number you haven't seen twice. Get two quotes for any real repair, ask for each one itemised, and keep both. A landlord who won't repair but wants to deduct from your deposit has to answer to the same paper trail you built.
Want to walk through your version of it?
Every landlord fight is a little different — the lease, the city, the history. Ask Dad about yours and he'll go at your pace: the practical thing first, and no judgement about how long you waited to deal with it. Ask something — and if you want the short version of who you're talking to, it's on the home page.
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